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De : lowens nicolas <[email protected] >
À : [email protected]
Envoyé le : Sam 5 juin 2010, 8h 59min 00s
Objet : It's Nicolas, a friend from Haiti

Hi bab,
how are you? you may be amazed to receive this email from me,
I didn't write you long before, it's because I lost the email address,
now that I find it , I am very glad to say hello!!
It was nicolas the interpreter from the general hospital in Haiti.
May God bless you.

From: Babak Rasolzadeh <[email protected]>
Date: Mon, Jun 7, 2010 at 6:49 PM
Subject: Re: Tr : Tr : It's Nicolas, a friend from Haiti
To: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>

Hey Nicolas!!

So great to hear from you my friend! I was very surprised and happy to see that you finally sent me an email. How is your wife? And your baby? Has it been born yet? How's life and the work-situation in Port-au-Prince right now? Is there anything I can help you with?

Your friend in Sweden
Babak Rasolzadeh

From: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>
Date: Tue, Jun 8, 2010 at 1:44 AM
Subject: it's so exciting...
To: [email protected]

dear friend ,
today we are not going to talk alot, because I'm so excited to hear from you!!
how are you? I know that you live in the other part of the world, in spite of that my baby would be glad to see you,
I would like that you become a part of my familly...
do you want to be the Godfather of my coming son?
I will think first before writing because I'm dealing with a medical issue now with my wife
she has an infection that 's not easy for her and the baby but I'm fighting.
they don't give me no job, but ther is something that you said to me when you were on your way to <petit goave>
you said "don't give up ,nicolas " and I keep the advice!!
at last , if there is something that you can do now for me  is depend on your possibility to send me some money
to buy some prenatal baby stuff and a bed for my wife, because after giving birth to the baby she won't be able to sleep on the floor any longer.
This is my biggest situation for the moment. Bab ,if you will send me a transfer, do it in western union transfer on my full name which is" nicolas lowens"
We will talk next, I don't want to take toomuch of your time.
 bab, for us in the familly you are a member!!
we love you man!!

From: Babak Rasolzadeh <[email protected]>
Date: Sun, Jun 13, 2010 at 11:41 PM
Subject: Re: it's so exciting...
To: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>

Hey Nicolas

sorry for the late answer my friend, I have been very busy lately. I
must say that I feel truly honoured by your offer of me becoming the
godfather of your child! Can You send me some pictures of you and your
wife? I hope it is ok that I share these pictures with my friends

Tell you what, let's make a deal: i send you money and you send me
pictures of what you buy for that money and also pictures of the
receipts? Is that ok with you?

Your friend

From: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>
Date: Wed, Jun 16, 2010 at 4:10 PM
Subject: your acceptandce!!
To: [email protected]

Good morning, my... bab!!
does your response to me means that you accept?
If that is so, I am already happy. there are several reasons  why I choose you a far away friend,
the first reason is that I feel that you are a very solid intellectual . The second one is that you are a very openmind person,
the third one is that I think it's always good to experience something exotic in life, man ,my family appreciates you according to the description I give them about you and my pretention about your personality.
I think that if you and I combine our potential to encircle the baby, he is going to be a genious

About the pictures , my answer is yes! I am going to send them for you,
I also agree to send pictures of everything that I will buy and their receips to you.
I hope that you understand bab that I am serious to have you in my environment , so, since it's not in my custom to compromise
I would never do  anything that would compromise my friendship with you, for , I must tell you that you are a good guy.

I really would like that you take into consideration my plea, since , my wife is  in her last days to give birth to the boy,
and my first priority is to buy the bed why? 1} it's a rainy period actually in Haiti people say If I don't do anything she can transfer a cold to the baby inside her womb,2} when her family come to visit her , I will lose respect before them, since I can't buy neither a bed nor prenatal stuff for the baby.
I don't know if in your country things are like that, down here in haiti , men always try to keep their prestige before the parents.
Most importantly , it's my first kid, I must fight to protect him from not only illness but from everything bad.

At  last bab, I accept everything you ask big friend!!
I'll send you everything.
Can you send the money this week?
I will send you the pictures of us at the end of the week.I was nicolas your friend!!

It was Nicolas ,your friend!!

From: Babak Rasolzadeh <[email protected]>
Date: Tue, Jun 22, 2010 at 2:04 PM
Subject: Re: your acceptandce!!
To: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>

Hi Nicolas my friend,

of course I accept. I will try my best to contribute to your family as much as I can help, however I feel obliged to at least have met your son before I can call myself his godfather. Which of course means that I have to come and visit you and your family sometime in the future. Meanwhile, I will be glad to send you monetary help every now and then. And I agree with you that together we can ensure a good upbringing for your son. Thank you for having such high thoughts and ideas about me, I honestly do not deserve that much appraisal, but hope to in the future when I have actually done something. I am truly honored and look forward to being a good godfather to him.

Thank you also VERY MUCH Nicolas for the beautiful photos. I really appreciate it. The more photos I get the happier I will become :-)
I would love to help you buy the bed. Is 100 USD good? I can send it this week. Just tell me to where and to whom to send it. Should I send it through Western Union?

Send my love to your wife and soon to be born son,

your friend

From: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>
Date: Mon, Jun 21, 2010 at 7:40 PM
Subject: the pictures
To: [email protected]

babak what's up?
I 'm about to send to send you the pictures , so, I hope that you are going to be satisfied.
Enjoy, my friend. I see that you don't send any answer yet to me, I hope as soon as you you are free , you will do so, I also pray that you are not angry against me after the last letter I sent to you.
bab, I count on you, my friend!!

It was nicolas!!

From: Babak Rasolzadeh <[email protected]>
Date: Tue, Jun 22, 2010 at 2:04 PM
Subject: Re: the pictures
To: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>

Thank you again my friend for the pictures!
Nicolas I need the following details from you to send money (100 USD) with Western union:
* Your full name
* Your dads name
* Your mothers name

Best regards
your friend in Sweden

From: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>
Date: Tue, Jun 22, 2010 at 5:45 PM
Subject: the details
To: Babak Rasolzadeh <[email protected]>

my full name is "Lowens Nicolas"

my father's name "XXXXX"

my mother's name "XXXXX"


my friend you need to send it on my full name, my phone number in case you need it: XXXXXXXXX.

also you need to send me your phone number because they'll probably ask it to me and also send me the number of the transfer of Western Union..

thank you before hands my friend.


From: Babak Rasolzadeh <[email protected]>
Date: Tue, Jun 22, 2010 at 6:12 PM
Subject: Re: the details
To: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>
Cc: babak rasolzadeh <[email protected]>

Ok. Nicolas I've just sent you 100 USD: I hope it goes a long way and that you can buy a bed for your wife. Would be very glad for some photos of that when you have done so :-)

my full name is: Babak Rasolzadeh
my phone nr: XXXXXXXX

They will contact you on your phone when the money arrives.

good luck my friend

From: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>
Date: Thu, Jun 24, 2010 at 12:01 AM
Subject: thanksgiving
To: [email protected]

My friend babak,
there is a certain emotion that goes through all the body when somebody suffers for something for so long and actually don't see the way to get through the issue.
One day , all of a sudden, a miracle has been operated , the problem is solved, " man!! you feel a certain fever that traverses all the the body and you grasp a little air , at that time you say verily I am delivered!

like this , bab, today after receiving the tranfer this was the way me and my wife felt ourselves,
so , bab, we are very gratefull to you!!
Now, the good news is I buy  the bed today!! and we look forward to sending the pictures for you!!
pretty soon!!

From: lowens nicolas <[email protected]>
Date: Mon, Jun 28, 2010 at 10:54 PM
Subject: some pictures, my friend!!
To: [email protected]

My friend, bab I want again to address a big thanksgiving to you , for ,I can not find enough  words to express my satisfactions not only for monetary help but also for the humanism that you show towards us, really I feel very confident that my family has a pillar in its construction, for , you show a picture that characterizes sensivity, comprension , love, affection, enthusiasm and friendship. In all , I must tell you that your before last letter features all these  points,
 really I am very proud of having you in the family and all the environment of my family is happy, for, my wife says that you are very humble and she sends you her picture as a souvenir. to be over , bab, we all are eager to see you with us. Can you send me some pictures of you to show them? this is what they are longing for now.  I wish you enjoy these pictures, except that I couldn't find a digital camra to send better pictures, I contend myself to let you see the bed, I am a little ugly in this one because I was not really ready when I found the cellphone to make the picture.

Nicolas, your friend!

My friend,    I send you a baby stuff picture that I would like to buy in preperation for his coming, in reality it's not an emergency, but since the country loses most of its stores it becomes difficult to find them, as somebody from miami is selling them near my place I boldly say say her to let them for the baby, I have faith, I'm gonna pay, so , it is a baby bed, two babychairs:the first chair is for sitting the baby , the second is for resting the baby and in the near future to help the baby stand and walk.
the last request that I have my friend, I would like that you think of helping me with my in breating the baby, for, doctors tell me that I must have my wife breatfeed the baby for six months.That means that I must take good care of her otherwise she may be sick in the breastfeeding period.
My friend I am asking these specific monetary help, for, two reasons: 1}I love my wife and the baby verymuch , then it's good to fight for them tbe in health.
2}I want to avoid a shame in the presence of my wife's family,
since the haitian government doesn't decide to pay us the professors in the public highschools yet , they profit the earthquake to tell us that they are not yet ready.
That's why bab, I say , really, I am deliverd since God puts on the baby's way to help him.
Dear, friend I keep on counting on you.
for, the baby stuff, I would like that you help me pay them on thusday.  Your friend, Nicolas!!